Friday, September 4, 2009

Black Wind

Hello there ^^
I'm back yet again for another weekly post ^^

Have you ever been in a situation where you're madly in love with a girl you cant have and every day you spend alone just spreads you thinner. Everyday, you try for her, you just end up getting hurt? Felt like u were a puppet and someone was fraying strings?

I know how you feel, and surprisingly this has become a massive social problem, or so i've noticed. So what do you do when you're in one of these situations? You Let Go. And that's what this post is basically about. Letting go is the hardest part, but sometimes when you now that friendship with that person isn't working and the result is only pain, that's all you can do?

So how DO you let go? It isn't to hard really. First, admit to yourself that you love that person. Okay, done? Now realize that there is a reason for you to have to let go. Its always darkest before dawn, The sky is blue, Stars can only be seen at night, there are reasons. So ask yourself why your letting go? Common answer is 'Because it's causing me more harm than good and we're better off alone anyway.' (from an interviewed cooperative)

So now that you've realized why you need to let go, stick with it. DO everything to keep your mind of that person. Go out with friends, get a new hobby, do things you like, anything really. Remember, if you really loved that person deeply, sometimes its okay to cry it out.

And no, he/she is not the only one for you. You've probably loved him/her for so long or so much that you're convinced he/she is right for you. The thing is, there truly ARE loads of fish in the sea, and the sea is a big place.

So embrace the black wind. Let it sweep her away and then you may fly free in the currents trailing behind. The world is your playground and there aren't any barriers.

Thats it for now. Till nxt time, peps. xD
L8r

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